Terminally ill woman follows through on decision to end her life, dies in Oregon

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An terminally ill woman who had decided to end her life after being told her illness would be long and painful has died, advocacy organization Compassion & Choices said Sunday.

Brittany Maynard, 29, who moved to Oregon where the “Death with Dignity Act” allows people to choose to die using medication, was diagnosed with a progressive brain tumor called glioblastoma multiforme. The average life expectancy is 14 months.

Compassion & Choices said in a statement that Maynard took lethal drugs prescribed by a doctor on Saturday and was surrounded by her family.

"She died as she intended - peacefully in her bedroom, in the arms of her loved ones," the statement said.

The group said the Maynard family has asked for privacy. The family did not release a separate statement confirming the death.

Her story went viral after she posted a video on her website, The Brittany Maynard Fund, explaining her decision to end her life rather than try to fight the disease.

“If all my dreams came true, I would somehow survive this,” she said in a video. “But I likely won’t.”

Maynard chose Nov. 1 to die, but later said she would decided to postpone the day, saying she still shared enough joy and laughter with her family and friends that “it doesn’t seem like the right time right now, but it will come because I feel myself getting sicker; it’s happening each week.”

Maynard’s last days were spent completing a bucket list that included a trip to the Grand Canyon, and surrounding herself with her family.

The California native was diagnosed with a progressive brain tumor shortly after her wedding last year.

In a video, Maynard said the worst thing that could happen to her --- the most terrifying aspect – would be to wait too long and her autonomy be taken away by the disease.

In the video, Maynard said she takes walks with her family and husband, which “give her the greatest feelings of health I have these days” and that her condition continues to worsen every day.

About a week before she filmed the video, Maynard had her most terrifying set of seizures, two in a day, which is unusual.

“I remember looking at my husband’s face and thinking ‘I know this is my husband but I can’t say his name,’ and ended up going to the hospital for that one.”

Dan, her husband, said they were taking things one day at a time.

“You take away all the material stuff, all the nonsense we seem to latch on to as a society and you realize that those moments are really what matter,” he said.

Maynard hopes that after her death, her husband can be happy and have a family.

Maynard said she has gained 25 pounds in the past three months because of her prescription medications and that she finds it hard to look at herself in photos or the mirror because her body has become so unrecognizable.

Since Maynard’s story went viral, she has been working to raise awareness of end-of-life rights by working with Compassion & Choices, and The Brittany Maynard Fund. She has also been traveling and spending time with her family.

“Sadly, it is impossible to forget my cancer. Severe headaches and neck pain are never far away, and unfortunately the next morning I had my worst seizure thus far. My speech was paralyzed for quite a while after I regained consciousness, and the feeling of fatigue continued for the rest of the day,” Maynard said on her website.

“The seizure was a harsh reminder that my symptoms continue to worsen as the tumor runs its course. However, I find meaning and take pride that the Compassion & Choices movement is accelerating rapidly, thanks to supporters like you,” Maynard said.

Maynard had said she planned to die in her bedroom at home surrounded by her husband, mother, step-father and best friend.
 

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sad...RIP..

you just don't know when your card is up...sad for sure...

sad
 

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I can see if she had kids trying to prolong her life as long as possible. Without kids, I can respect her decision. Takes a strong person to do what she did knowing full well she is not a suicidal person.
 

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RIP Brittney... so sad...
 

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It's really difficult to judge what she was going through. Only she knows how much pain she was in. And if any of you have been around someone else who struggles with a debilitating pain every single day, you know that person eventually stops being themselves. There isn't any quality of life living that way.

Can't even imagine having to try to make that decision for myself someday.
 

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Glad there are some states that allow this. My dad died from lung cancer when I was a kid and weighed about 80lbs when he died. I'm sure he would have rather gone out a little earlier.....rather than suffer.
 

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This should be allowed everywhere. She died with dignity and without too much suffering. May she rest in peace
 

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So, OP, let me get this straight,…you support and encourage euthanizing disabled people? People that are so ill that they can't make rational decisions?

May I ask where you intend to draw the line on this? The mentally disabled? The mildly disturbed? Online posters that disagree with you?

Interested in your "response"
 

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So, OP, let me get this straight,…you support and encourage euthanizing disabled people? People that are so ill that they can't make rational decisions?

May I ask where you intend to draw the line on this? The mentally disabled? The mildly disturbed? Online posters that disagree with you?

Interested in your "response"

the law is based on being mentally capable of making rational decisions.
 

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I would like to think I would fight to the bitter end to stay alive/ hold out for a cure/ try experimental medication etc


However it's impossible to say without being in someone elses shoes. And it should be up to the individual how they end their life


may she rest in peace
 

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That's exactly what she did

Suicide is never a rational choice. By definition suicide is not a rational decision, it is the result of depression, anxiety and fear of being dependent or a burden. Surveys of terminally ill persons indicate that very few consider taking their own life, and when they do, it is in the context of depression.
 

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So, OP, let me get this straight,…you support and encourage euthanizing disabled people? People that are so ill that they can't make rational decisions?

May I ask where you intend to draw the line on this? The mentally disabled? The mildly disturbed? Online posters that disagree with you?

Interested in your "response"

This from the guy who refuses to do the same. Pot meet kettle.
 

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Suicide is never a rational choice. By definition suicide is not a rational decision, it is the result of depression, anxiety and fear of being dependent or a burden. Surveys of terminally ill persons indicate that very few consider taking their own life, and when they do, it is in the context of depression.

Well, this woman had no feeling of depression, anxiety or fear of being (I think you mean independent) or a burden.

She said in multiple interviews, she had no desire to die or commit suicide. She just didn't want her body to deteriorate to nothing. She wanted to go out on her terms.
 

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So, OP, let me get this straight,…you support and encourage euthanizing disabled people? People that are so ill that they can't make rational decisions?

May I ask where you intend to draw the line on this? The mentally disabled? The mildly disturbed? Online posters that disagree with you?

Interested in your "response"

A) Did I say I support and encourage euthanizing disabled people?
B) She was fully coherent and able to make rational decisions

Stop trying to start shit because you can't back up your bullshit claims in other threads.
 

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Nobody makes a rational decision to commit suicide. Read Catch 22

The Hindu rishiis - along with many other Master Teachers - let us know that all 'death' is a form of suicide.

Though when we come to realize that the life force is eternal we can find relief in knowing that croaking is merely the illusion of 'death' to many who remain on this plane of existence
 

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