Curious for some takes on this.
Girl I've been casually seeing for only about a week, but we have some history. We slept together last summer but then she got back with her long-time on-again/off-again boyfriend, but we remained in loose contact. She messaged me out of the blue a week or so ago, now single and wanting to meet up.
We set up a dinner date for Friday night (tonight) at kind of a higher end burger joint overlooking the city.
After some dirty texting and what not she ends up over here last night (unplanned) and we sleep together. She doesn't spend the night.
So today we exchanged a few text messages. "I had a great time last night", "are we still on for dinner", blah blah blah. We settle on 7:30. I offered to pick her up, she says nah I'll come to your place and then you can drive. That way if we end up back at your place I'll have my car. So clearly girl wants to fuck s'more.
Anyway I had a super busy day at work, which I conveyed to her over texts ("sorry I'm being short, I'm really busy"). I get done working at about 6 and sit down on the couch for a lil bit before she is supposed to get here. I accidentally pass out on the couch.
I wake up to her at my front door at 7:24. I let her in. She asks if I've been sleeping. I say yeah, wow, I was beat from long day at work and faceplanted into the couch, my bad. Tell her I have to get ready but it'll only take me 10 minutes tops. Offer her a drink, she declines. She sits on the couch and flips on the TV. I go back to shower and throw on a polo.
I come out of my bedroom at 7:35, ready to go. She is gone. Check my phone and she texted me. "I'm going to go find something to do, maybe you just need to hang at home tonight. Not digging being your afterthought."
So WTF?! I feel like that was totally uncalled for and shitty. I mean I'm sorry I didn't roll out the red carpet for you, but we're going out to grab burgers. Get over yourself. And if you had such a big problem with it, have the nerve to say some shit to my face when you walk in my house instead of waiting for me to hop in the shower and then just bounce.
So am I an asshole or is she just not even worth fucking with? Left a sour taste in my mouth for sure.
Girl I've been casually seeing for only about a week, but we have some history. We slept together last summer but then she got back with her long-time on-again/off-again boyfriend, but we remained in loose contact. She messaged me out of the blue a week or so ago, now single and wanting to meet up.
We set up a dinner date for Friday night (tonight) at kind of a higher end burger joint overlooking the city.
After some dirty texting and what not she ends up over here last night (unplanned) and we sleep together. She doesn't spend the night.
So today we exchanged a few text messages. "I had a great time last night", "are we still on for dinner", blah blah blah. We settle on 7:30. I offered to pick her up, she says nah I'll come to your place and then you can drive. That way if we end up back at your place I'll have my car. So clearly girl wants to fuck s'more.
Anyway I had a super busy day at work, which I conveyed to her over texts ("sorry I'm being short, I'm really busy"). I get done working at about 6 and sit down on the couch for a lil bit before she is supposed to get here. I accidentally pass out on the couch.
I wake up to her at my front door at 7:24. I let her in. She asks if I've been sleeping. I say yeah, wow, I was beat from long day at work and faceplanted into the couch, my bad. Tell her I have to get ready but it'll only take me 10 minutes tops. Offer her a drink, she declines. She sits on the couch and flips on the TV. I go back to shower and throw on a polo.
I come out of my bedroom at 7:35, ready to go. She is gone. Check my phone and she texted me. "I'm going to go find something to do, maybe you just need to hang at home tonight. Not digging being your afterthought."
So WTF?! I feel like that was totally uncalled for and shitty. I mean I'm sorry I didn't roll out the red carpet for you, but we're going out to grab burgers. Get over yourself. And if you had such a big problem with it, have the nerve to say some shit to my face when you walk in my house instead of waiting for me to hop in the shower and then just bounce.
So am I an asshole or is she just not even worth fucking with? Left a sour taste in my mouth for sure.
