Yeah, but with a gf......I can't imagine doing this with a wife. Me & my gf got back together tho.
There's a lot of reasons why you might want to do this, & my situation had nothing to do with us cheating on each other or wanting to date other people.
For me, it was that we were spending entirely too much time together, even at work all day, so we mutually agreed to live apart for a month to see how it went.
We got back together because we missed being together outside of work, haha........I guess as the saying goes, you don't know what you have until its gone.
As long as you have a trusting relationship, everything else is easy IMO.......
There's a lot of reasons why you might want to do this, & my situation had nothing to do with us cheating on each other or wanting to date other people.
For me, it was that we were spending entirely too much time together, even at work all day, so we mutually agreed to live apart for a month to see how it went.
We got back together because we missed being together outside of work, haha........I guess as the saying goes, you don't know what you have until its gone.
As long as you have a trusting relationship, everything else is easy IMO.......
my best buddy was separated for nearly a year, they both had flings
but they got back together and have been together for over 15 years now, actually celebrating their 30th anniversary in two weeks
if it's meant to be, it's meant to be
once divorced, a lot more in life changes than just the two of you separating, nearly everything changes
sometimes a simple concession can keep things together, other times it's irreconcilable
but they got back together and have been together for over 15 years now, actually celebrating their 30th anniversary in two weeks
if it's meant to be, it's meant to be
once divorced, a lot more in life changes than just the two of you separating, nearly everything changes
sometimes a simple concession can keep things together, other times it's irreconcilable
Yeah I just don't get the whole "we need to be separated to work on our relationship" mentality. It makes no sense to me. If you need to work on your relationship, then you need to do it together, not apart. It takes work on both sides, separating just drives a wedge and makes it easy to not do that work.
In my first and second-hand experience, whoever is peddling this load of crap that you can actually work on your relationship by spending more time apart, is pretty much always the one that wants to fuck other people.
So if you're going to end it, just end it. And if you want to try to save it, separation will make that almost impossible.
My .02, and of course there are exceptions.
In my first and second-hand experience, whoever is peddling this load of crap that you can actually work on your relationship by spending more time apart, is pretty much always the one that wants to fuck other people.
So if you're going to end it, just end it. And if you want to try to save it, separation will make that almost impossible.
My .02, and of course there are exceptions.
