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bigbet1234 · Jan 10, 2021

I know we have a lot of don juans around here, relationships geniuses. Lol

I’ve had 3 relationships my whole life and the last one was a doozie. Grade A whack job.

I’ve been taking/texting this chick for 6 months now every day. I relate to her more than even my first wife. She has her shit, I have mine. But she lives 500 miles from me.

No way you can talk to someone every day, and not be connected, right? Lol. Maybe it’s just another whack job I latched on to, but I think not.

And yea, I went and met her once for a Philly bengals game, no sex, nothing. Just hung out with her friends and her. Again, there’s shit we are both trying to work on.

Anyone experience anything like this?

Blaze away!

michael777 · Jan 10, 2021

Long distance relationships a real tough in my opinion, good luck , God Bless , hope it works out

brendanjack · Jan 10, 2021

Wow having an amazing time with a chick and zero sex on a long distance get together means one thing fucken keeper

rwjr · Jan 10, 2021

It's the whack jobs that'll keep u on your toes w-thumbs!^ but hey .... good luck with the new girl

Dr.Love · Jan 10, 2021

michael777 said:
Long distance relationships a real tough in my opinion

Genius take. Really thought provoking.

Dr.Love · Jan 10, 2021

bigbet1234 said:
I know we have a lot of don juans around here, relationships geniuses. Lol

I’ve had 3 relationships my whole life and the last one was a doozie. Grade A whack job.

I’ve been taking/texting this chick for 6 months now every day. I relate to her more than even my first wife. She has her shit, I have mine. But she lives 500 miles from me.

No way you can talk to someone every day, and not be connected, right? Lol. Maybe it’s just another whack job I latched on to, but I think not.

And yea, I went and met her once for a Philly bengals game, no sex, nothing. Just hung out with her friends and her. Again, there’s shit we are both trying to work on.

Anyone experience anything like this?

Blaze away!

Need more info. If she wasn't 300 lbs and you still are talking after you met her, I guess you both weren't disgusted by the other by appearance. Sounds like something is there.

azbob · Jan 10, 2021

Women like to have gay friends.

Dr.Love · Jan 10, 2021

azbob said:
Women like to have gay friends.

lol

razorbackpicks · Jan 11, 2021

azbob said:
Women like to have gay friends.

that was funny

daboyzinblue · Jan 11, 2021

Her name wouldn't happen to be Lennay Kekua would it?

bigbet1234 · Jan 11, 2021

azbob said:
Women like to have gay friends.

Hahahahaha

bigbet1234 · Jan 11, 2021

Dr. Love said:
Need more info. If she wasn't 300 lbs and you still are talking after you met her, I guess you both weren't disgusted by the other by appearance. Sounds like something is there.

Far from 300lbs. She’s 400. Haha

Willie99 · Jan 11, 2021

What happened to Ms Yoga? Was she whacked out?

I have absolutely no idea how to handle a long distance relationship. Wouldn't want to drive or fly 500 miles to see anyone, except my children of course. Do anything for them

Is relocating even an option? For either of you? What are you looking for? A significant other? To have sex once a month? A friend with benefits? And whatever you're looking for, is it mutual?

For any relationship to have a chance, you should be best friends first. That's a start

brendanjack · Jan 11, 2021

Kankles

bigbet1234 · Jan 11, 2021

Willie99 said:
What happened to Ms Yoga? Was she whacked out?

I have absolutely no idea how to handle a long distance relationship. Wouldn't want to drive or fly 500 miles to see anyone, except my children of course. Do anything for them

Is relocating even an option? For either of you? What are you looking for? A significant other? To have sex once a month? A friend with benefits? And whatever you're looking for, is it mutual?

For any relationship to have a chance, you should be best friends first. That's a start

Whacked out is putting it lightly. Lol

valium · Jan 11, 2021

daboyzinblue said:
Her name wouldn't happen to be Lennay Kekua would it?

Ha Ha! Good stuff. Amazing Te'o still in the NFL. played yesterday for the bears. Is married to a good looking girl. Well she looks like a women to me.

bigbet1234 · Jan 12, 2021

My ex wife was from Georgia. We did the long distance thing for 3 years.

I can move where ever I want, but east coast isn’t my first choice by any means. Lol

Had the friend with benefits, ended up she talked out both sides of her mouth. Said it was nothing but friendship and sex. But she kept forcing relationship shit on me, so in the end what she wanted in reality, is something I couldn’t offer her

Willie99 said:
What happened to Ms Yoga? Was she whacked out?

I have absolutely no idea how to handle a long distance relationship. Wouldn't want to drive or fly 500 miles to see anyone, except my children of course. Do anything for them

Is relocating even an option? For either of you? What are you looking for? A significant other? To have sex once a month? A friend with benefits? And whatever you're looking for, is it mutual?

For any relationship to have a chance, you should be best friends first. That's a start

slapshot · Jan 12, 2021

Paul Anka would call it Puppy Love

Bozzie · Jan 12, 2021

bigbet1234 said:
I know we have a lot of don juans around here, relationships geniuses. Lol

I’ve had 3 relationships my whole life and the last one was a doozie. Grade A whack job.

I’ve been taking/texting this chick for 6 months now every day. I relate to her more than even my first wife. She has her shit, I have mine. But she lives 500 miles from me.

No way you can talk to someone every day, and not be connected, right? Lol. Maybe it’s just another whack job I latched on to, but I think not.

And yea, I went and met her once for a Philly bengals game, no sex, nothing. Just hung out with her friends and her. Again, there’s shit we are both trying to work on.

Anyone experience anything like this?

Blaze away!

I did a long distance for five years DC to LA ..Flight Alaska Filght #006 out bound and Alaska flight 005 back I must have flown that route 100 times over the years.
We now live together in Oregon ..All I can say is spend a good amount of time with her before you jump..I was splitting time between DC and LA total pain in the ass but now worth it...she's great and not nutty in anyway.
On the flip side I met this chick from Texas on a job.. we fell in love, took a romantic trip together..Made loose plans to spend time together .
She decides to move to LA quits her job, gives up her pad Ect...
I fly out to Dallas to drive back with her to LA( first time real life shit faced us) ..By the time we got to New Mexico I knew I'd fucked up big... lasted about 2 months and was total mess from the time she arrived.

Good luck..Spend time ( lots of it) see how she deals with stress Ect every day life says a ton about someone....Amazing how long people can be behaved then suddenly not.

bigbet1234 · Jan 12, 2021

Great advice. Takes a good 3 months of being around someone to see the red flags.

My issue was I dove head first into those flags. A little older and wiser. The last one was a doozie. If you’ve ever been bonded to a Cluster B personality disorder person, then you know. Not for the faint of heart by any means.

Bozzie said:
I did a long distance for five years DC to LA ..Flight Alaska Filght #006 out bound and Alaska flight 005 back I must have flown that route 100 times over the years.
We now live together in Oregon ..All I can say is spend a good amount of time with her before you jump..I was splitting time between DC and LA total pain in the ass but now worth it...she's great and not nutty in anyway.
On the flip side I met this chick from Texas on a job.. we fell in love, took a romantic trip together..Made loose plans to spend time together .
She decides to move to LA quits her job, gives up her pad Ect...
I fly out to Dallas to drive back with her to LA( first time real life shit faced us) ..By the time we got to New Mexico I knew I'd fucked up big... lasted about 2 months and was total mess from the time she arrived.

Good luck..Spend time ( lots of it) see how she deals with stress Ect every day life says a ton about someone....Amazing how long people can be behaved then suddenly not.

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