I know a lot of guys who will simply not lend money to anyone. they say, and with good reason, that it is a sure way to lose a friend, and a better way to put yourself in debt as most debts never get paid back. I always seem to lend out too much money, and i usually don't get paid back. Should I limit loans to only family? Does anyone here have advice on where to draw the line? Should I never lend money to a fellow gambler? Please help.