Neteller is great if you're not overly concerned with privacy or security, and are only using it for in-out transfers to books. In that capacity it is hard to think of a better system, but as an overall payment solution it is very poorly-implemented.
Any book that does not require ID to open an account should not require ID for making a withdrawal. If they have it as standard policy in their ToS then you should have read the fine print; otherwise I'd pull out of the book entirely and recommend against using them to anyone who asked.
Phaedrus