opinions needed so i can put this behind me after 12yrs

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about 12yrs ago during the college basketball season i was all set to make a play against north carolina taking the 8 1/2pts that was listed in my PAPER when i got a call from my friend who asked me to call a bet in for him ON n.c so i told him i would and of course i just booked his bet but didnt tell him,he came over to watch the game it goes into o.t. and n.c. wins by 8 he's pissed throws down the $220 for me to pay the book so he thinks and leaves just then i get a call from my uncle and he's screaming what a great cover it was by n.c. seems the bookie had it at 7 1/2. about three years later i told my friend the story thinking e would laugh FVCK NO!!! he still has'nt forgiven me to this day claiming i owe him $420. now i asked peoples opinions on this before and their always on his side but none of them are gamblers. so i thought you guys would know who is right. REMEMBER THE SPREAD IN THE PAPER WAS 8 1/2 AND HE WAS FINE WITH THAT, I HAD NO REASON TO CALL THE BOOKIE IMO.
 

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Teddy, I think you're in the right here. I assume you would have paid him if NC would have covered the 8.5. Your friend made no limits as to the line he would take, and was ok with the 8.5 he thought he had. You had no idea while the game was going the line was 7.5, you found that out after the game was over. I look at it as a bet at 8.5, which you took yourself. Sorry if others disagree, but it is gambling and it is money. I wouldn't have spilled the beans to him though.
 

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Simple answer are you a friend or a bookmaker? If you want to act like a bookie fvck him he new the number he was getting and he lost. If you claim to be a friend you'll give him back his 220 but no way do you owe him 200 out of your pocket.
 

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teddy

the guy was fine with the bet.

you booked it.

he lost

he payed

imo

end of story

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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> just then i get a call from my uncle and he's screaming what a great cover it was by n.c. seems the bookie had it at 7 1/2. about three years later i told my friend the story thinking e would laugh FVCK NO!!! <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

One question...If just after he left your uncle called you and told you about the 7½ line...
How come you din't called your friend right away... or the next day?... or the next week?... or within the month... or when the season ended!
Unless you COMPLETELY lost contact with your friend, I just don't get it...

I think he has all the right to be pissed, if you happen to casually mention the thing 3 years later!!
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I think the honorable thing to do is to give him the $420 (I'm guessing you DID collect the win), or AT LEAST the $220 back.... plus 3 year interest!!
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Ok, and I know if the friend took the bet with that line and was fine with it, he lost it... But the moment your uncle called you knew otherwise. If he is a friend, and I guess he is because he's been around 12 years since (even if only to get paid), and you REALLY feel bad about it, but you don't want to pay him or give the risk back, talk to him... and please don't laugh when you tell the story on a bar in front of him!!!

[This message was edited by A Lady Passing by on June 14, 2003 at 11:22 AM.]
 

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DW you had a good question and point i think i'll put $220 in a account for him at the start of cbb season thatshould make him happy and relieve my guilt. to answer your question "no chance in hell" im not sure i could be
 

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The mistake you made was mixing business with pleasure. He lost. But now you see that it's not that simple.
 

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I have booked friends bets many times when we differ on sides, but i will always use the same lines that i can get. If with a local, then i will always offer the same line as the local has up or the line i see on the net, whatever i have available at the time of the call or request. As the newspaper is not a bookie, i would have to agree that his monies should be returned(220). Had the call been made to the bookmaker & 7½ gotten, all would have been good. As a friend, one owes courtesy of supplying the most correct line.

Betting principles thrown out here. Just a scenerio of friendship from my view on this matter.

I have as well had friends book my bets and give me a number that benefits them and could have gotten me a better number and i have lost on a ½ point too. I didnt like it, but accepted it. I never got to mad though, just an inside hurt that a friend could do this.

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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> I have as well had friends book my bets and give me a number that benefits them and could have gotten me a better number and i have lost on a ½ point too. I didnt like it, but accepted it. I never got to mad though, just an inside hurt that a friend could do this.
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General: Once you accepted the fact you lost... What would happen if the friend that booked the play for you casually tells you after 3 years that you actually won?
 

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WHY DID YOU EVER BOTHER TO TELL HIM AT ALL?

i mean, if you didnt want to tell him then, you should have just kept it to yourself.
 

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I think your ok Ted, good topic!

I book my friends bets sometimes and if this happened and I told my friend 5 minutes, afterword I think they would laugh let alone 3 years.
I just don't know how good a friend this guy is to you... If the bet was at 8.5 I don't think there is anything to be pissed about...
 

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DON'T BOOK WITH FRIENDS! Your friend is a baby, and he ought not gamble! He accepted the terms, but in the future, just don't bet with friends!
 

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Lady,

Let me share an experience that will maybe answer that question.

A couple/three years back, there was football game. I only remember that i got SF -3½. I placed this bet with the bookmakers Son with whom i worked and considered a friend. I made my wager and the game landed on SF by 3. After the game, i talked to another friend who informed me that the book had this game on 3 all day. The bookmakers Son, my friend, gave me the ol' hook. I never made a bet with him again, but our friendship was fine. We, the books Son & me, never discussed it. If he came to me today and admitted to me he hooked me, I would not feel any different.
 

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I did this to a woman once and it was for quite a big chunk of money too. Like you I won the bet and like you she got VERY upset with me. Why did I ever tell her?

All's well though, we just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary last week.
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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>All's well though, we just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary last week. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
See? You payed her BIG TIME!!!
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Cecil:<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>I book my friends bets sometimes and if this happened and I told my friend 5 minutes, afterword I think they would laugh let alone 3 years.
<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> On this case, for what I understood, teddy didn't tell his friend until 3 years later... Then again I'm also guessing he DID collect his friend's winning... or am I wrong?
That's why I think he owes him at least the risk money.
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Tedy, Tedy, Tedy, Its not like you changed the line midgame on this guy....The odds were known when the bet was made and he was ok with it so you shouldnt have to worry about giving the money back...My only question to you is why would you even tell him after 3 years?? If you ever were gonna tell him it should have been right after your Uncle called you...Forget about it, you booked the bet, he lost with the line you gave, end of story!!!!

A Lady Passing, Tedy didnt collect any money other than the 220 his friend lost, Tedy booked the bet himself and a bookie wasnt involved....
 

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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>
All's well though, we just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary last week.
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Patrick----It's amazing what woman will do to save a buck!!
 

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