THINK GIRLFRIENDS SON TRIED TO STEAL FROM ME..

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Have a lock box that I keep in my dresser, and its about the size of a shoe box, andhas a combination lock built into it...keep little $$$$ there if you know what I mean. Girlfriends son asked last week to use my house to l"lay out and get some sun" as it is at a lake. Well ystrday when went to go get some $ out of the box I noticed that "someone" had tried to break in it. Very obvious as it was bent and the top looked like someone took a screwdriver and tried to pry it open !!! I opened it and nothing gone as it is a tough little sucker..This is her only son (18 yrs old and spoiled...never works but is going in Air Force in November) I know if tell her she'll say it wasn't him and maybe she might say it was one of his buddies that came over with him to sun...Have thought of taking to Police to get fingerprints off it and then will know and tell her.....I DO NOT WANT HIM TO GET AWAY WITH THIS....THOUGHTS?????
 

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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> never works but is going in Air Force in November <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

That may not help. Tell him to try the USMC.

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at least he's stupid!!! he shoulda taken the whole thing and had one of his friends bust it open!!!!

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it might have been ur girlfriend trying to see what you are trying to hide in there.
 

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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by SportSavant:
it might have been ur girlfriend trying to see what you are trying to hide in there.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>OOPs,,,,should have said X=girlfriend as she has not been in house for 2-3 weeks...and General I agree, but any branch of the service will help this kid!!!
 

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Tough call...it is obvious you know he did it, just confront him...talking is a good thing.
 

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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Journeyman:
Tough call...it is obvious you know he did it, just confront him...talking is a good thing.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>This KID spoiled big time...will deny it and she'll back him up and I'll be a SOB for even suggesting he did it....thats why think getting fingerprints off the box might be best idea...now got to figure out how to get his fingerprints for a match...since he has already enlisted are his prints in the "national archives"????
 

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Just have him handle a cup or glass and take that...its not that hard really, take both items and see...you seem very serious about it, I don't blame you....whats the best scenario to come of this though?
 

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Good Question Jman...maybe just to show him he can't pull sh*t on me and other people???...like if he was my son I would want that to happen...if he thinks can get away with it will always try and pull stuff like that...wouldn't you want your son/daughter to get caught if they did something like that??? I know I would...certainly will be sorta glad to show her also...
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of course I would...But its different whe you raise them, you have control and can imply your will on them from the start.

Keep us posted, its an interesting dilemna you have...I agree with all you're saying , just asking is all.
 
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Ask him honestly if he did it. If he denies it then get your fingerprints for proof. If they are his fingerprints then I say an eye for an eye. Take some of his favorite CD's out of his car and see how he likes that. Make sure he knows you did it by mentioning that you like the band "Three Doors Down" or whatever CD he listens too but don't mention anything else. Obviously give the CD's back at some point in time but leave him with the impression you will not tolerate someone stealing from you.
 

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Based on his heading to the military, I can't think of anything to be gained by trying to play Detective Dan here.

Sounds like a good time to review your standards on who gets to hang out at your house unsupervised.
 

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I agree with Barman...

additionally... maybe he just wanted to see inside...does not prove he would have actually taken contents...
 

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i like the fingerprints suggestion. problem is, maybe the prints are gone since you presumably have handled the "box" since the discovery of this attempt to steal the cash.
 

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Jman...you hit the nail on the head when you said can't raise someones elses kids w/your standards...that was the big stumbling block in our relationship..saw how he was and how he sh*t on her all time and I couldn't keep mouth shut...well definitely think that next time he calls to "sun" the answer is no and will confront HIM then and not say anyhting to her...if says no will ask if I can have his fingerprints so he can prove to me he didn't do..if innocent will say OK... SSavant.. & Barman/B]I like your thoughts about him just wanting to "look inside" and not take anything but think we both know that is kinda weak...maybe he didn't know there was $ in there but it is a combo lock so why fvck w/it if not going to take whats inside..but you might be right but still shouldn't open someone elese lock box... BUT I DEFINITELY CHANGED MY MIND ABOUT WHO CAN COME OVER AND SUN
 

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Why dont you get married or keep your mouth shut, your as big a piece of garbage as the kid is.
 

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do not call the cops. they arent gonna get prints off there for nothing, they will want him prosecuted. id just tell the woman about it and say you know it was him or his friends and dont make a huge deal about it. just dont let him use the place anymore of course.
 

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Not for nothing but ANY thief , not saying he is one would check your dresser first,lol! Find a different place to put the box and just be grateful it wasn't stolen and smashed opened!! If this kid really wanted to get in it would've been smashed open! Maybe his mom told him to try to get it opened to see what you are hiding??
 

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