NO ! It bounces off of me. I don't beat the wife, kick the cat, throw things, break the TV, etc.
Little is gained. Things are what they are. If you have a warrant for some offense ( like FTA), and a cop catches you speeding... trying to out-run him and resisting arrest will make things 10X worse in the end.
If your wife/ GF is caught cheating ( by you) killing one or both will net you prison, just move on, think of consequences first. Decisions like this make up what's needed in a gambler. In short it's control under stress.