Guys help?, I'm recently engaged

asiarush · Nov 9, 2005

What do I expect??........Does her father pay for the wedding, or most of it, When should It come up w/her in conversation, engaged only a week, her parents are great, middle class/upper.they love me....We live on long island, ny........Any input would be great

Thanks

WorldNumberOne · Nov 9, 2005

fukkin A , her parents pay for it...

cause you're gonna be payin for it the rest of your life...

you simply walk in and say " hey pops , you need to come off of some of that coin you been saving up.. "

" i want an open bar for all my boys "

Hitman26 · Nov 9, 2005

Congrats to you pally. I hope it all works out for you.

juice · Nov 9, 2005

I agree with WN1.
I think traditionally you're supposed to pay for the rehearsal dinner?
Make sure it's open bar all night.
If I've learned anything, it's that everyone hates a cash bar, especially at funerals... err.. weddings

ppeter · Nov 9, 2005

You better be ready to pay for it yourself. It will definitely start the relationships with the inlaws off on the bad foot if you "expect" them to pay. Let them come offer it to you. If they don't, you can always elope.

juice · Nov 9, 2005

If you're going to elope, you might as well do it during the RX bash... last year we had GIJoe and his fear factor hand, next, a wedding, complete with dozens of degenerates at your open bar.
At least the room is comped.