Marriage is a legal contract. Why would you not discuss the terms if that contract were to be ended. Marriage was invented to give women the right to own property, people seem to forget that it was not started as some religious thing. "til death do us part" a bunch of BS, the fact is a marriage will probably not last so why in the world put yourself in a position where you will be financially strapped because of a divorse. Women always seem to get around the pre nups anyway, they always get their way in court.