I went to a local strip club and I really dont t get it. Maybe someone can help me with this one. I, like many of you have gone many times over the years....some times fun and other times not so much fun like my most recent trip. I had a beautiful asian girl giving me a lap dance with her boobs and ass in my face, grinding on me ...the whole 9 yards and it made me so unsatisfied..Obviously I wanted and needed more , however I dont get the point...I paid her to tease the crap out of me and and I wasnt even allowed to touch her beyond the side of her legs. I went to the club cause I am a man with urges....and this only made it worse. I know things happen in the VIP rooms but I aint lookin for sex with a stranger and I refuse to pay for it anyway. I wanted to grab her beautiful and I do mean beautiful t*ts a little and squeeze her ass etc...nothing too crazy though. I left feeling like a complete loser...payin good $$ for a tease cause I dont ever get that close to gorgeous women in my own pathetic real life. My point is...Do any of you ever leave feelin like a douche or totally horny and frustrated? I can get that lookin at porn, but that aint my cup of tea really. Sorry to ramble but, damn she was hot and I left the establishment wanting more and knowing only "other" guys really get women like that. Dammit,dammit:nopityA:
About 13 years ago I dated a dancer (not nude) for about a year, I never understood the whole fascination with men going to see women they couldn't have....I will say this though, a lot of those girls have such low self esteem that they and up dating customers, they become addicted to the attention and change...at first I thought it was a great way for her to make money but what I found was it changes even the best person with innocent intentions...
I felt like a loser just waiting around in there for her to get off work....those girls are going down a dead end road.
I felt like a loser just waiting around in there for her to get off work....those girls are going down a dead end road.
Dante said:
Dante- I could write a book on the things that happened in the year and a half I went out with her...'The Transformation of an Angel' would be the title.
That girl put me thru hell :drink:
And on top of it, I use to bet thru her boss, the bastard stiffed me on what was at the time my best weekend of betting...why did I bring this up
wow...
that was a real oprah moment....
ofcourse guys feel unsatisfied at strip clubs . that is why they go back over and over again..
like j man , i too have dated a few dancers. after a few weeks you realize it isnt worth it.
they come with way too much baggage....
try going to club where you can actually touch them.. you may like it more..
their are a couple of " full contact " clubs in my home town..
that was a real oprah moment....
ofcourse guys feel unsatisfied at strip clubs . that is why they go back over and over again..
like j man , i too have dated a few dancers. after a few weeks you realize it isnt worth it.
they come with way too much baggage....
try going to club where you can actually touch them.. you may like it more..
their are a couple of " full contact " clubs in my home town..
World Number One said:
My story was a little different, my girlfriend at the time (she was 22) just moved to Maryland from the D.C. area and needed a job, she saw an ad for a 'bartender' and I said go for it....
So I took her down to this bar and I waited outside for her to come out, she comes out and tells me the guy wants her to dance (not nude though) and that the girls average all this money each night....So stupid me tells her 'go for it' thinking she will just work there and make all this easy money...a year later she was a completely different person...It was without a doubt the craziest year of my life....it's funny now but at the time I was hating life.
live and learn :toast:
back in 86 when i was 24 , i dated miss nude florida for a little while..
i'll never forget going to see loverboy / starship with her.
i had her on my shoulders down on the floor of the arena and their were about 50 guys around us staring at her and not giving a shit about the music.
i felt like " THE MAN " for a few hours...
now i feel like " THE OLD MAN " ....
i'll never forget going to see loverboy / starship with her.
i had her on my shoulders down on the floor of the arena and their were about 50 guys around us staring at her and not giving a shit about the music.
i felt like " THE MAN " for a few hours...
now i feel like " THE OLD MAN " ....
so let me see if i got this straight....You get frustrated when you go to a strip club. Its just a tease fest. You are teased to no end at strip clubs becuase you cant touch their 
and ass however you do not want to have sex with them. Dont you think that if you grabbed their and ass you would get even more frustrated? Just a thought.
Then you do not want to pay to have sex or have sex with a total stanger. Furthermore you dont want to rub one out to porn. So basically the only way you could feel less frustrated from what I understand are:
1) Join a dating site (sorry you probably have to pay for it which would probably equate to paying for sex but at least you get to sleep with someone you know-somewhat). Go out on a few dates. Cuddle some. Talk about your dreams, ambitions, the world, Religion, politics. Then bang her.
2) Cut off your nuts and penis so you feel a lot less frsutrated.
Those are the only 2 options I see for you to feel less frustrated. I guess you could always try to bang someone you already know or try to get to know someone at work better and then knock boots with her. Other than that I would go for option #2.
Best of Luck to you. :nohead:
and ass however you do not want to have sex with them. Dont you think that if you grabbed their and ass you would get even more frustrated? Just a thought.Then you do not want to pay to have sex or have sex with a total stanger. Furthermore you dont want to rub one out to porn. So basically the only way you could feel less frustrated from what I understand are:
1) Join a dating site (sorry you probably have to pay for it which would probably equate to paying for sex but at least you get to sleep with someone you know-somewhat). Go out on a few dates. Cuddle some. Talk about your dreams, ambitions, the world, Religion, politics. Then bang her.
2) Cut off your nuts and penis so you feel a lot less frsutrated.
Those are the only 2 options I see for you to feel less frustrated. I guess you could always try to bang someone you already know or try to get to know someone at work better and then knock boots with her. Other than that I would go for option #2.
Best of Luck to you. :nohead:
mlb players getting all the girls? you better believe it!!! my bestfriends wife has a girlfriend who used to see barry bonds whenever he came to philly. found this out about 3 years ago. we were at his house and i could over hear talking about a guy but it wasnt about this girls boyfriend. when she went to the bathroom i looked at my friends wife and she whispers barry bonds. my friend told me the next day how he calls her and gets her tix to the games then after the game..its hotel time. im sure bonds has a babe in every city.Stunt Double 1 said:
I use to work as a bouncer in a club here in Houston in the early 90's and I also never understood why these guys would pay so much money for the tease. Unless you had some $$ and ended up with the dancer in the VIP room or some hotel its not worth it...JMO
When I was like 21/22 I could sit in a strip club all day. Now I just get too horny. Plus you sit there all drunk kind of thinking "this broad is giving me more attention than most I bet I could bang her" and she is just thinking "this loser is spending his weeks pay on me what a toolbag"
