im married with kids and have shared a checking account for 15 yrs
if you can not trust her with the money why marry her in the first place
iceman your not married why should you share a checking account...when you stop living in sin:grandmais and get the balls to tie the knot then get a shared account:drink:
however I do not share my neteller account:nono5: but she knows about it
if you can not trust her with the money why marry her in the first place
iceman your not married why should you share a checking account...when you stop living in sin:grandmais and get the balls to tie the knot then get a shared account:drink:
however I do not share my neteller account:nono5: but she knows about it
Sorry did ck my spelling CANT share an account
We have 2 accounts. One im in charge of and all the money goes in there.
Her's, is funded by that account (mine) as she needs it.
My wife has never worked. She has been an at home mom for 15 years. Its not a trust issue. Its this. If she only has 200 in her account thats all she will spend. If she had 500, all the sudden she needs to spend 500. And so on.
We have 2 accounts. One im in charge of and all the money goes in there.
Her's, is funded by that account (mine) as she needs it.
My wife has never worked. She has been an at home mom for 15 years. Its not a trust issue. Its this. If she only has 200 in her account thats all she will spend. If she had 500, all the sudden she needs to spend 500. And so on.
Dante said:
not my case at all as I trust mine with everything just wondering what guys feel about being monitored on there spending habits (esp with gambling involved) when you have been able to do what you want with it up until then.
Also grew up in a home that parents had only 1 account just seems weird to think of married people having seperate accounts.
xpanda said:
And don't even get ME started on the remote control. NO "P*ssified" TV - we are MEN - that means you can NOT watch Oprah or Dr. Phil or those P.O.S. Soaps or anything like that. Sit down, shut up and watch the game with me unless you are as hot as when we got married and you have on a French Maid's outfit or even less - and you don't look like a "Beached Whale" while wearing it - and in that case - get on your knees andmake me hard and THEN i will consider missing the end of the game - and NO - I will NOT change the channel with 2 minutes left in the game so you can watch something on the Hallmark Channel or Lifetime
if you are like MOST women - same thing goes for sharing the blanket in the winter something MOST women know nothing about
"Oh, I'm sorry honey - I didn't mean to steal the ENTIRE blanket for the 50th night in a row and leave you out the shiver - sorry it won't happen again"
When dealing with women it is best to look at it this way
What's hers is hers
What's yours is ALSO hers
and for most guys that includes your dignity, respect AND that "tripod" between your legs, too - the one your right hand will get to know VERY WELL if you forget: What's your is ALSO hers
