OT: How do you end a friendhsip

assassin · Dec 19, 2006

6 year friendship seems to have run its course.

Do you
a) just stop contacting each other; or

b) make one last contact to tell them what you enjoyed about the friendship, memories, and maybe an honest evaluation of their strenghts and weaknesses before wishing them a good rest of their life

Kind of debating right now.
Any advise would be helpful.

Journeyman · Dec 19, 2006

male or female?

I am assuming female.

Arodd · Dec 19, 2006

stop contacting him if you really are positive you don't want to be close with him/her ever again.

SportSavant · Dec 19, 2006

ha, funny....

I have the same feeling about a few friends that I have known for 16 years now?

Muddy · Dec 19, 2006

Stop calling them
If she did something wrong make sure to tell her what she did

SkinsRaj28 · Dec 19, 2006

Don't do shit. It'll happen on its own.

Ironman_8 · Dec 19, 2006

I would go with the B option here because the thing is you don't know what the other person is thinking. That other person may think that everything is going well in the friendship.

If you have been a friend for 6+ years than you have shared a lot, personally it would make you seem like an ass if you just stop calling them

People sometimes just start to have different desires, goals, likes and dislikes and move on from where they were from when they met.

Call them (no email or text messages) and let them know whats up.

assassin · Dec 19, 2006

Journeyman said:
male or female?

I am assuming female.

correct, how did u know

Ironman_8 · Dec 19, 2006

assassin said:
correct, how did u know

In that case stop calling.

Damn good catch J-man. I didn't see that at all.

No man looks at strengths and weaknesses in their friendship with another man unless they were lovers (not that there's nothing wrong with that).

WharfRat+ · Dec 19, 2006

assassin said:
correct, how did u know

Probably because you don't officially end friendships with your guy friends. I go years not talking to some of my old friends, and then when we get together its just like old times.

Women are a complete different story.

GameBreaker · Dec 19, 2006

yea, because with dudes you can get sick of them, but then see them a while later when you're drunk and have a few laughs.

But bitches can be so damn different.

I say don't do anything and let whatever happens happen.

assassin · Dec 19, 2006

NightHawk said:
Stop calling them
If she did something wrong make sure to tell her what she did

I was probably the one who did something wrong

steaktartar · Dec 19, 2006

loan him or her money u will never hear from them again

kid44 · Dec 19, 2006

The best way is they way I hope your parents told you. Be honest as to why. It takes balls to do it but you will feel better in the end.

Maybe after you say what you really feel it might not end.

Kid44

bellyputter · Dec 19, 2006

Ask her for a blow job. Women love to feel special.

TheRightSide · Dec 19, 2006

Fuck her sister or mom:hump:

royboy_3831 · Dec 19, 2006

steak tartar said:
loan him or her money u will never hear from them again

hahaha Thought I was the only one who knew about this trick...:scared:

assassin · Dec 19, 2006

Ironman_8 said:
I would go with the B option here because the thing is you don't know what the other person is thinking. That other person may think that everything is going well in the friendship.

If you have been a friend for 6+ years than you have shared a lot, personally it would make you seem like an ass if you just stop calling them

People sometimes just start to have different desires, goals, likes and dislikes and move on from where they were from when they met.

Call them (no email or text messages) and let them know whats up.

I was the one that intiated the contact. Last repsonse I got was that she was very mad at me, and wanted to wait unitl she calmed down so she did not say anything she would regret later.
But it has now been a while.
Wondering if I made the LAST and final contact (B) or just let it go.
I think I would feel better with a final wrap up to the friendship.

Valuebets · Dec 19, 2006

Sorry to hear that Assassin, I think you should just go for it and have the last say. It definitely makes you feel better emotionally.

Journeyman · Dec 19, 2006

assassin said:
correct, how did u know

Just a hunch...and a little logic.

I have this problem a lot!

And the more you act like a jerk the more they want to remain friends , it's amazing..I use to be the nicest guy and got nowhere now I just act like I don't care and can't get rid of them .

hno: Skinsraj may be interested in taking her off your hands.

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