Would You Date a Girl that Put out The First Night?

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so i met this girl a couple of weeks ago and she was totally awesome. we went out and just went back to her place and just went at it forever. I ended up spending the whole weekend with her and even the next weekend after her. She's cool with my gambling, loves to watch football and loves video games as well. I can sense that she wants to date me and is totally in to me, and I'm liking her a lot too, the only apprehension is that we slept together after knowing eachother only a few hours. What would you guys do?
 

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What would you guys do?

fuck the shit outta her until she starts to get clingy....but that's just me...not interested in a chick that put's out the first night. The fact that she doesn't know the "cardinal rule" tells me she's either stupid or a slut, both unacceptable.

PS - over the age of 45 this advice does not apply.:bunnies:
 

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I guess you could look at it the other way, she may be thinking the same thing about you. If you like her and she is cool, then go for it. Anymore it is hard to find a girl that won't put out on the first night. I wouldn't let that be a determining factor in if you date her or not.
 

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or do u guys think that maybe she did know the cardinal rule but was either in to me enough to say screw it? or maybe she was confident enough that she knew I was gonna stick around even after I did it, as I truly feel a lot of girls dont hook up the first night for the sole reason that they are afraid that sex is all the guy wants.
 

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I guess you could look at it the other way, she may be thinking the same thing about you. If you like her and she is cool, then go for it. Anymore it is hard to find a girl that won't put out on the first night. I wouldn't let that be a determining factor in if you date her or not.

What he said. If you are into each other then go for it. This isn't 1952 anymore
 

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or do u guys think that maybe she did know the cardinal rule but was either in to me enough to say screw it? or maybe she was confident enough that she knew I was gonna stick around even after I did it, as I truly feel a lot of girls dont hook up the first night for the sole reason that they are afraid that sex is all the guy wants.


That is definitely the the optimistic view, but highly doubtful.

Where did you meet this girl?
 

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Don't let your dumbass brain get in the way. Making a real connection with someone doesn't happen all the time, go for it.

You dig her.
She digs you.
You both want more than just sex.
Pretty simple.
 

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honestly, it sounds like you are probably in your twenties. I used to sweat that too at your age...thirties I rarely worry about it and I imagine in the fourties and above no worries at all

Main thing is you guys dig each other and are a match.
 

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Date one? Hell I married one, but now that's done with. I fully expect women to put out on the first date...I am pretty F'n Tempting to any woman, I don't blame them for not being able to hold back...You could even call me Mr. Wonderful...

But seriously once a woman reaches a certain comfort level with themselves, they have no set rules about 1 date, 3 dates etc.
If she's into you and she feels comfortable around you she'll "Put Out" on the first date. Take it as a compliment
 

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actually we met on match.com, I'm 29, shes 22. Since ive met her, she hasnt logged into her account so that was cool. Shes pretty mature for that age as well as shes in the army and is already an e6. From what friends have told me, you definitely have to have your shit together to be that high up in rank at such a young age. I'm def gonna pursue something with her, I just wanted to hear what some fellow RXers had to say.
 

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honestly, it sounds like you are probably in your twenties. I used to sweat that too at your age...thirties I rarely worry about it and I imagine in the fourties and above no worries at all

Main thing is you guys dig each other and are a match.

does sound like he's in his early twenties
:bunnies: OH YEh!!!!!
 

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I don't see what the problem is. If a chick didn't want to jump me the first time we went out why would I want to see her again?
 

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actually we met on match.com, I'm 29, shes 22. Since ive met her, she hasnt logged into her account so that was cool. Shes pretty mature for that age as well as shes in the army and is already an e6. From what friends have told me, you definitely have to have your shit together to be that high up in rank at such a young age. I'm def gonna pursue something with her, I just wanted to hear what some fellow RXers had to say.
I doubt a 22yr old that will fuck like a banshee on the first date will want to get "Serious and commit" , to funny....just live life now man do not fuck it up with getting " serious"
 

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I have some concerns about this girl.

I think everyone will agree with me that you'll need to post naked pictures of her in this thread.
 

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