Alright, here I am, ready to answer your good questions. I'll try to keep my answers brief since I have a tendency to yak a bit.
Yes, my g/f is deaf as well. She can hear some, unlike me. She actually can use the phone a little (only to familiar voices) and loves music, especially Mariah Carey. I am practically deaf (the official word would be "profound deaf", I guess) as I can only hear loud sounds nearby. Though, most likely, the vibrations are what would make me aware of those sounds.
It's hard to answer "what's it like in today's world --being something--" whatever that something is, ya know? I mean, being black, brown, blind, deaf... they all have their own culture that it's hard to just describe. A rural-town person would leave a different live than someone who lives in the city all their lives, right?
But, no matter, let me mention a few things: as for movie theaters, many theaters nowadays have one of potential technological options: 1) open English subtitles in select theaters at specific viewing times that everyone will see, or 2) rear-view window thingy in newest theaters in where there is a gadget on the side/under the seat that would reflect words onto the gadget for deaf/alternative language readers to look at (I haven't experienced this particular approach yet, personally), or 3) simply wait for the DVD to come out to both save the costs of movie theater tickets & the need to go out to a public venue with 300+ people watching the same flick.
Really, about "government provisions", I'm not sure if you may be referring to the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990) but while I don't pretend to know the innards of that law by heart, I could quickly point out a couple things. A big business who sets up a storefront but with only stairs leading into the store would be in violation of the ADA because it is not handicapping-accessible. Imagine a combat veteran in a wheelchair having to have someone push him up/pull him up in bouncy steps just to get into the store? That, along with many scenarios with the deaf, for instance, having the right to ask a hotel to provide "flashing lights" for the hotel room to be able to be alerted to --not ONLY the door but also to be alerted if there was a fire alarm going on--.
During the 1990's before the cellphones/pagers craze, the deaf used TTY's to communicate via phone with each other. It was a device with an alphabet keyboard where we would put the headset of a telephone onto the device, and the device would translate the signals coming through into text . Similar to Instant Messages these days online except that we had use d special codes to let the other person know it's now their turn (same idea with CB radio). During that time, being a teenager, I obviously wanted to chat with my deaf friends all hours, LOL. I was lucky that there was a subsidy where TTY users got a considerable discount from the phone companies because it was proven that it takes like uhh... 3 minutes of typing to equal to 1 minute of voice (or worse).
I'm sure I have missed many things to say but will stop for now for further questions, smiles.
P.S. Maybe if there are some more questions from posters, we can end up asking the mods to move this back to main forum, dunno.
Later,
* CalvinTy