i'm working as a manager in a big restaurant and this young girl is one of my employees. i'm maried and i know i shouldn't be doing this but i really like this girl...she is 18-20 yrs old, and i'm 33. she has a boyfriend and i'm not sure that she knows that i'm married. she is not a shy girl by any means but she is not looking (nor acting) like a golddigger either...she is kinda childlish, and asks hundreds of questions every day, and many times i ask myself 'why is she asking me this, she should know by now that i'm not supposed to know some of those answers...when i start flirting with her, her face gets red in a hurry.but looks like she likes that...any good advice or line that i could use to ask her to go out for a dinner or something...something funny ? help please as i really have hard time understanding this 'new generation' thanks !