OT: Dating Question

hosnatcher · Sep 19, 2007

Okay if you ask a chick out to say dinner or a movie or something and she says sure but just not on a weekend. Does that mean she isn't really interested and just going on the date with you just to not hurt your feelings.

Me personally I think the chick is just going to take the free dinner and call it a night.

Romanowski · Sep 19, 2007

you dont let her dictate when yall are going out

you ask her out on a weeknight and let her wonder....

move on shes selfish and you let her be

juice · Sep 19, 2007

That's the thing with roofies, they work any time of the week!

mike0187 · Sep 19, 2007

Romanowski said:
you dont let her dictate when yall are going out

you ask her out on a weeknight and let her wonder....

move on shes selfish and you let her be

good advice.

WVU · Sep 19, 2007

Maybe she has her kids on the weekend. maybe she visits her sick grandparents. Maybe she volunteers at the hospital on weekends.

Or maybe she wants an out when you ask her to sleep with you

Heatwave · Sep 19, 2007

My wife did the same thing on our first date. I said how about we go out Saturday night, and she said lets go out on a Wednesday. I thought nothing of it, and went. I find out later on that she didn't want to tie up her weekend with her friends due to a potential bad date. But, it didn't matter anyway, cause I ended up staying the night, and she ended up cancelling with her friends on the weekend as well.

So, bring your A game to the date and it won't matter what night you go out. And if she is out for a free meal, then so be it. She isn't the only girl that does that, and how many times have you taken a girl out to dinner and that was the first and last date.

HW

TheKids · Sep 19, 2007

I would kinda turn it into a joke and find out what her deal is. Mess around with her and respond with something like, oh i get it, first time out, cant be on a weekend? You will either find out that, YES she doesnt want it on a weekend, or NO she has other things she does, like work, kids, watever.

MMMIA · Sep 19, 2007

hosnatcher said:
Okay if you ask a chick out to say dinner or a movie or something and she says sure but just not on a weekend. Does that mean she isn't really interested and just going on the date with you just to not hurt your feelings.

Me personally I think the chick is just going to take the free dinner and call it a night.

what does that have to do with anything?
I dont get it
I think ur thinking too much

RobFunk · Sep 19, 2007

Umm. Why not just ask in a round about sort of way why no weekends?

buddyboy · Sep 19, 2007

I need a picture of the girl in order to decide.

anyway, why do you care what night of the week she lets you bang her?

LEYKIS101 · Sep 19, 2007

Hosnatcher,

Make it a cheap date then(NO DINNER). If there's no feelings between you two at least you saved yourself $.

And listen to Tom Leykis for more valuable pointers.

:drink:

rayray · Sep 19, 2007

leykis is right on here. fuk the dinner. tell her you got caught up at work or some shit and that goin to a movie is the best you can do. if it goes good, maybe ask if she has plans for the weekend for a raincheck on dinner. if she gives you a bullshit excuse for not going, fuk it, your only out 20 bucks or so for a movie.

cincy_ · Sep 19, 2007

It means the chick is married ... and she can't get out of the house on weekends ...

Like one of dates once said:

"My husband doesn't like it when I flirt with other men ....

... but my boy friend doesn't care"

quantumleap · Sep 19, 2007

hosnatcher said:
Okay if you ask a chick out to say dinner or a movie or something and she says sure but just not on a weekend. Does that mean she isn't really interested and just going on the date with you just to not hurt your feelings.

Me personally I think the chick is just going to take the free dinner and call it a night.

hosnatcher, chances are she has to work at an OC strip club on weekends. That's what you get when you ask out a chick that works in a stripper bar.

:toast:

LEYKIS101 · Sep 19, 2007

quantumleap said:
hosnatcher, chances are she has to work at an OC strip club on weekends. That's what you get when you ask out a chick that works in a stripper bar.

:toast:

hno:

CoolBreeze22 · Sep 19, 2007

Maybe her period is coming this weekend and she wants some ass pronto.

kingbill · Sep 19, 2007

Agree with both heatwave and Leykis, I know personally I don't want to ask a new girl out on the weekend because I don't want to waste a night out on someone I don't click with.
I doubt I would do a no dinner date but I would take her to a tapas bar or something lighter, no need to bring out the 5 star on a first date because as much as she's trying to make sure you're not a douche bag, you should be doing the same...Is she worth your time?

steaktartar · Sep 19, 2007

kingbill said:
Agree with both heatwave and Leykis, I know personally I don't want to ask a new girl out on the weekend because I don't want to waste a night out on someone I don't click with.
I doubt I would do a no dinner date but I would take her to a tapas bar or something lighter, no need to bring out the 5 star on a first date because as much as she's trying to make sure you're not a douche bag, you should be doing the same...Is she worth your time?

i agree with what the giant bear just said too

pumpuup · Sep 19, 2007

Does it really matter what night you go out?

As Tom Leykis says hit it and quit it.

If she doesn't put out some other chick will.

The bottom line is that you need to look for a chick with low self esteem, she'll be easier to bang and you'll spend less money too.

:hump:

Buster · Sep 19, 2007

well i....like a lot of other guys often will rate my womens by the way they look.

so-so that is a weeknight girl (say a tuesday)
awesome that is a thursday
smokin hawt friday or saturday

maybe womens are now rating men the same way?