19 yo high school senior gets jail time for sex with 15 yo girlfriend

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The guy was a 19 year old high school senior and had sex with his freshman girlfriend who was 15 years old at the time. The age of consent in South Dakota is 16. The ringer is when the Deputy States Attorney remarks about how the guy had no remorse for how it affected "the victim" and her family.

STFU Colleen Moran you moron! I hope you have a daughter that starts hooking on the streets at age 13 and recruits her friends to do it also.

http://www.argusleader.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080107/NEWS/80107037/-1/UPDATES

A Sioux Falls man this morning was sentenced to 90 days in jail for a sex act with his high school girlfriend.

Joseph Rehema, 20, pleaded guilty in October to fourth-degree rape, admitting to a sex act with his girlfriend when she was a 15-year-old high school freshman. Rehema was 19 and a senior when they began dating.

Deputy Minnehaha County state’s attorney Colleen Moran said Rehema has shown no remorse since his arrest.

“He has shown concern for how it has affected him getting in trouble for it rather than how it might have affected the victim and her family,” she said.

Defense lawyer Darren Magee said Rehema’s is one of the few cases that merits a suspended imposition, where the conviction isn’t entered as long as the defendant complies with probation.

“This is the type of case that just shouldn’t ruin a young man’s life,” he said. “Joseph is certainly not a sexual predator.”

Judge Glen Severson instead stayed a five-year prison sentence for two years probation and 90 days in jail. The judge said he might consider changing the sentence to a suspended imposition if Rehema succeeds with probation.

The statutory rape conviction requires Rehema to register as a sex offender, but he is allowed to petition for removal after 10 years.
 

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This kid's career outlook is shot to shit now..
he'll be lucky to get a job as a mechanic
 

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As a father of a teenage girl (now age 19), I can't complain too much about laws which criminalize sex between 19 year olds and 15 year olds.

I do, however, strongly object to the insistence that such crimes automatically get slotted as RSOs

It's reasonable to state that the criminal justice response towards sex-related crimes has spiralled horribly out of control to the net detriment of the community.
 

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This kid's career outlook is shot to shit now..
he'll be lucky to get a job as a mechanic

Seems as though he did his thinking with the wrong head.
 

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This kid's career outlook is shot to shit now..
he'll be lucky to get a job as a mechanic

I doubt a guy that's 19 and still in high school was exactly on track to become a doctor.
 

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Doug.. you've got a point there.. maybe he stuck around for first dibs on the incoming freshman
 

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Guy was facing 5 years in the big house and got off with 90 days. Now he gets to find out what real love is all about.
 

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How is this guy in jail while SkinsRaj is still roaming the streets?

Only in america...
 

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If the guy were also a 15 year old freshman, then no crime, right ?

So, how old does the guy have to be for this to be rape, 18 ?
 

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If the guy were also a 15 year old freshman, then no crime, right ?

So, how old does the guy have to be for this to be rape, 18 ?

Probably 16 if that is the legal age of consent....

I'm not positive that he isn't charged even if he was 15, though...

I don't see the big deal about this? Seems like he deserved his punishment
 

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If it was me, and the girl was under 18, I'd make sure I knew exactly what the law was in my state.

On the other hand, her parents likely knew the girl was dating this older guy.

Tough case with the guy also still a "student", but 16 means 16.

Isn't it 18 in most places ?
 

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If the guy were also a 15 year old freshman, then no crime, right ?

So, how old does the guy have to be for this to be rape, 18 ?

It depends on the state. In some states there is a 3-year rule if the girl is 13 and over. That means if the guy is less than 3 years older than the girl and she is 13, 14 or 15 then it's not statutory rape.
 

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Probably 16 if that is the legal age of consent....

I'm not positive that he isn't charged even if he was 15, though...

I don't see the big deal about this? Seems like he deserved his punishment

The point I was trying to make is that I don't believe 19 year olds should get jail time for having sex with a 15 year old. Sure, the guy should have known the law. It's that I think the law is outdated and the penalties are too harsh for that type of situation.

When I was a senior in high school and turned 18 I had sex with 15 year olds. It's not that much different for one more year.
 

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If I was 19 and still in school I would be hitting a teacher right now. Forget a freshman with all these freaky teachers running around these days.:hump: Also by the age of 12 most girls have had sex more times than most the posters on this message board.. Those lil sluts some call their daughters.
 

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I doubt a guy that's 19 and still in high school was exactly on track to become a doctor.

haha First thing I thought of as well.

On second thought, Jimmy Clausen enjoyed high school at the age of 19. Maybe this kid from SD was held back by his dad to help his HS athletic career?
 

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As a father of a teenage girl (now age 19), I can't complain too much about laws which criminalize sex between 19 year olds and 15 year olds.

I do, however, strongly object to the insistence that such crimes automatically get slotted as RSOs

It's reasonable to state that the criminal justice response towards sex-related crimes has spiralled horribly out of control to the net detriment of the community.

Good post and I agree.
 

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SO at what age should it become a crime? 20,21,30? And how old should the girl be 14,13,12,10? Manipulation of children by adults has to be set at some level, you just can't use consent as the standard.

I am sure there is more to this story. Who informed the police in the first place? Why?
 

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