Guys I have ruined my life. My highschool sweetheart and I are getting a divorce. We have been together for 16 years on the 31st of this month. We started dating when I was in 9th grade. We got married 7 years ago. The reason we are getting a divorce is because I cheated. I did the worst thing I could have done. I screwed her best friend. This all happened about 5 years ago, and it just came out. There is a long story about how it got out, and very complicated. But needless to say she heard some rumors, and she did some investigating on her own. I could tell she felt I did it, but wasn't sure. So earlier this month, she was looking at me with tears in her eyes and said "that was fucked up what you did" and I broke down and admitted the whole thing. I came clean after living that lie for 5 years. The guilt has killed me. My wife is a one in a million women. We were so perfect for each other, it was almost fairy tale like. We loved all the same things. She loves to gamble more then I do, she can tell you anything you want to know about sports. She was my best friend and I ruined it. At this point in time we have signed papers but its not finalized yet. My question to you guys is there anything I can do to get her back. We have been very civil about the whole situation. We agreed on all the terms of the divorce and we are both getting a fair deal. We still talk on occasion and are nice to each other. I need to get the love of my life back guys, and ideas would be nice.
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