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And get her number. Is your first communication since that drunk night a text or a call? Text is pretty informal but obviously alot easier. I have been single for about 3 months now and usually go text first to see what kinda response you get.
 

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Depends how interested you are. If you really don't care that much and just wanna see her response to see if you really start going for her I would text, but if it's someone you really wanna see I would call.
 

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Depends how interested you are. If you really don't care that much and just wanna see her response to see if you really start going for her I would text, but if it's someone you really wanna see I would call.

Thats what I am saying. After 2 hours of drunk talk at the bar, its hard to be that interested. Its alot easier for her to turn you down over text as well. If you call, they say yes, you dont know what to make of it.
 

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Dude, what are you, like 15?

Pick up the phone and call her like a man, for crissakes!

I am 27, and very new to the dating game. Been with the same girl for 8 years, so like I said I am an amateur. Talking with a bunch of friends they go text. And these guys get there share of girls so it isnt like I am dealing with losers.
 

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Dude , don't even think about calling !!! 80% of people today don't even pick up their cell phones besides she will see a strange number and not pick it up ! Text her than if she gets back to u quick and is nice u know getting laid will be in the bag !!!!!!!!
 

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Dude, what are you, like 15?

Pick up the phone and call her like a man, for crissakes!

Texting is popular now. A lot of girls I know prefer when the guy texts first because then they 1) get to think of what they want to say instead of being surprised by the call and 2) get to answer when they want instead of being interrupted from what they're doing. Chicks love to text all day long.

Maybe it's just because I'm younger than most of you, but I would text.
 

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Are these your friends?

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has nothing to do with a generation gap

call do not text
 

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Phone call. But make sure to keep it short, this should only be about setting up your next meeting in this case. And make sure you have some good energy, don't just call up with a bored sound "Hi, this is (your name here). We met at the bar, remember? Soooo...how about that weather?" Do the best you can to get back into whatever framework it was that you got her number in the first place.
 

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^ exactly....u lead the call...not her...and high energy

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Text. Others will say otherwise, but the girl will like the informal setting more. If you call you could stumble over your words or say the wrong thing. You can play it off like you're busy or something in a text. She'll text back if she's interested. It'll save you from having an awkward conversation if she isn't, and if she is interested you can call her later.
 

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if you have any interest in this girl at all, don't text, period

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You don't want her 1st impression of you to be a text message.

F'n call


the rest of you kids have no clue
 

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You don't want her 1st impression of you to be a text message.

F'n call


the rest of you kids have no clue

His first impression already happened. This is just a follow up on that. You're acknowledging that you're interested in possibly meeting up again but you don't have to call and force an awkward conversation. If she responds to the text you can call her, but if she doesn't she doesn't want to talk IMO.
 

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"force an awkward conversation" = pussy talk

what are you gonna do when you meet her?

lol this is crazy
 

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you could call and tell her you are a power poster on a internet gambling forum for over 2 yrs and asked this question on it... that might turn her on beyond belief and could get you other dates
 

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