Is it a dick move on my part to date a married woman???

harrington · May 24, 2009

We have worked together for 20 years and we have always liked each other. She is not intimate with her husband and was planning on leaving in the next year or so. We have crossed over the inappropriate behavier line so it's too late to turn back now. My friends say I'm single so who cares, have some fun.
:think2:

homedawg · May 24, 2009

I think there should be a code between men that shouldn't be broken. No offense, but if it was my wife my shotgun would be shoved down your throat. Like I said though, no offense, do what you have to, but I would wait until they are officially separated.

Enfuego · May 24, 2009

homedawg said:
I think there should be a code between men that shouldn't be broken. No offense, but if it was my wife my shotgun would be shoved down your throat. Like I said though, no offense, do what you have to, but I would wait until they are officially separated.

You'll get the thumbs up from this crowd but the thumbs down from me. How would you feel if your ex was cheating on you and it caused your divorce? Do your thing but I don't think it's right.

Rawpimple · May 24, 2009

Pay it Forward!

I am sure numerous men had their way with your ex-wife. I say go for it. Married women used to be a challenge when I first started, now they are easier than single women. Cheating is rampant and if the divorce rate is near 50 percent, the cheating and still married is the other 50 percent.

Go for it an pay it forward!

:drink: :dancefool

:cripwalk:

homedawg · May 24, 2009

Enfuego · May 24, 2009

Rawpimple said:
Pay it Forward!

I am sure numerous men had their way with your ex-wife. I say go for it. Married women used to be a challenge when I first started, now they are easier than single women. Cheating is rampant and if the divorce rate is near 50 percent, the cheating and still married is the other 50 percent.

Go for it an pay it forward!

:drink::cripwalk:

What a nice thing to say to a guy married for that long.

oldmanTED · May 24, 2009

Harrington:

Sorry my friend, can't condone this one. Even if she and her husband are not intimate, how would you feel if you were the reason they separated or got divorce? Many good marriages don't have intimacy as the partners are still very close. Move on. Find yourself a single woman.

wilheim · May 24, 2009

harrington

2 no no's -- a co-worker and a married one at that. I wish you the best but the relationship has potential diaster written all over it..

BOL. wil.

Enfuego · May 24, 2009

wilheim said:
2 no no's -- a co-worker and a married one at that. I wish you the best but the relationship has potential diaster written all over it..

BOL. wil.

Very good point Wil. I forgot about the coworker part but so true. There are many single women to be caught in the sea. Just stick out your little pole and reel one in.

HacheMan · May 24, 2009

homedawg said:
No offense, but if it was my wife my shotgun would be shoved down your throat.

See, and I've always felt just the opposite.

It's the spouse who is mostly at fault, whether it be the husband or wife, more so than it is the person on the outside.

She is the one you should be holding your shotgun to, not him......

kingbill · May 24, 2009

Blame yourself if your spouse cheats on you...so the shotgun should go in your own mouth

homedawg · May 24, 2009

Hache Man said:
See, and I've always felt just the opposite.

It's the spouse who is mostly at fault, whether it be the husband or wife, more so than it is the person on the outside.

She is the one you should be holding your shotgun to, not him......

yes her first

wannabewhale · May 24, 2009

All Buffalo women cheat

harrington · May 24, 2009

oldmanTED said:
Harrington:

Sorry my friend, can't condone this one. Even if she and her husband are not intimate, how would you feel if you were the reason they separated or got divorce? Many good marriages don't have intimacy as the partners are still very close. Move on. Find yourself a single woman.

They have split up before. She only returned for the sake of her children and they both know the marriage is over. I know it still does not make it right but I really dig her.

HacheMan · May 24, 2009

wannabe whale said:
All Buffalo women cheat

haha.....From the same area I see Whale........So do you speak from experience?

:toast:

homedawg · May 24, 2009

kingbill said:
Blame yourself if your spouse cheats on you...so the shotgun should go in your own mouth

me 3rd

homedawg · May 24, 2009

wannabe whale said:
All Buffalo women cheat

trust me it's just not Buffalo. Could just be New York State though:think2:

Brock · May 24, 2009

If the woman is married and wants to date
another man that should tell you some thing
about the woman. Stay away. If you do date
maybe it would be a blessing to the sap she
married.