furnace is in a closet and vents in the ceiling and its driving me nuts trying to figure it out
If the FAU ( forced air unit) aka air handler, furnace is in a 2nd floor closet and the vents are cut into the ceiling then there has to be attic area the way I see it. This is good since there has to be a way to access this area. Look for about a 2' by 3' access panel ( usually made of sheetrock), and it will be framed in. Look in bedroom closets. You of course will need a 6' stepladder.
I assume this building has a normal peaked roof.
Once you get in the attic it will be hot and nasty, could have many different kinds of insulation. Some of the more modern stuff is really nasty, but better than pink fiberglass rolled stuff. Be careful you don't want to fall through a ceiling. Take something to span the trusses to give yourself something to walk on like some scrap lumber.
Maybe you can find an HVAC guy for cheap on CL ?