Anyone who is married or in a committed relationship, what's your opinion of your wife or girlfriend having male friends?

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I know everyone is different so I just wanted to know how you guys feels about your loved ones?
 

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I feel there is a double standard regarding this matter or maybe it's just my situation.
 

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No problem, especially if she had these friends before you came along, no prob at all......
 

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I've been married for almost 5 years and my wife is a great person but I feel like she can do whatever she wants and I can't.
 

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There not people she knew before me. Not saying she would cheat but the fact she doesnt want me to have female friends gets under my skin.
 

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Its just overall painful. I'm getting tired of arguing about it. She's wrong and can't admit it. Honestyly its starting to drive me away. Why try to control somebody if you don't want restrictions put on yourself.
 

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I guess I can only blame myself because I let develop into this. I never say no to her. I let her do whatever she wants and in return I'm always home taking care of our daughter. I just want to be treated fairly. Just wish she could walk in my shoes for a mile or two. I have never cheated on her, never got another womans number, I don't even think ive been out without her. It's a completely lopsided relationship.
 

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The last time I went anywhere without her is too eagles vs redskins mnf. Last year. I went with my basicallybrother in law
even that was a fight to go to. For me to do anything it's a struggle. It makes me not even want to go anywhere because I know it's going to be a battle.
 
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The Female friends are ones you had before & During her ??

She sounds like she has no Self Confidence, and a very Low Self-Esteem
 

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I don't mean to bother you guys with my problems. I'm sitting here venting on my gambling forum. My best friend who is regular on here, I don't even tell him about my marital issues because I don't want him to view my wife negatively. He probably will read anyway.
 

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I really don't have any friends all together. She drove most of them away. Like I said my only true friend is on this site and I don't like to talk about family.
 

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been there, done that.

the reason she does not trust you, is becoz she does not trust herself, her "friends" might be more than that, and since she knows her behavior is inappropriate, she probably thinks ur behavior would be inapropriate if you had female friends.

bottom line she does not trust you because she herself knows she cant be trusted.

Disclaimer: not saying your wife is a cheater, but ive seen this pattern before first hand.
 

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So why stay married if your not faithful your just wasting everyones time and life.
 

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