It was her. Her early life issues with herself and family have caused her an endless cycle of denial and fear of abandonment. There is nothing I could do to change that. There is not a more helpless feeling when you love/care for someone who just can't give you the same because of the barriers they put up. I did the best I could, honest.
There was this girl who I had the hots for and miracle of miracles, she thought I was hot too. I was convinced that not only was I madly in love but this was "the one"! About two weeks of passion and then one night I bring her flowers and she tells me that she "needs some space" to figure things out. She had recently broken off a long term relationship and she had some "anger" issues she had to work out. I was devastated. I moped around in a daze for weeks. I tried and failed to rekindle that spark between us, but it just brought me more misery. On the positive side, she introduced me to my future wife who I've been happily married to for 26 years.
Im going through almost that exact thing right now. me and this girl have had a crush on each other for over 2 years. We finally get together and we have the best few months ever and then one day she wants some space to think about stuff. She says her school is getting to hard and she needs to slow things down with us. F-ing women.
The moral of the story is to make sure she introduces you to some of her friends
So it was all her fault ?
that signature of yours .....was that up before you made this post ?
It sounds like you knew exactly what her problems were, but you never mentioned any of your own. Were you perfect ? or was it really just all her fault ?
and one more thing ............did you not know exactly what you were getting into from the start ?
She had a fear of abandonment ..............and then you took her in and then abandoned her ?
I just thought your post was very interesting....sorry to barge in with so many questions .
My last (significant) relationship ended because my ex went camping two days after my grandmother died. She was my best friend, I was living with her when he and I met. He came home six hours after her funeral, apologized 'cause he 'couldn't' be there, and I told him to get the fuck out. Lost my two most important relationships on the same day. Totally sucked at the time, but always better to know sooner than later that your boyfriend is a douche.
