Former EX girlfriend throws me out of the bar for no reason

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Dated this girl 4 years ago for about 1 year. She left me 2.5 years ago. Have not seen her personally in 2.5 years. I go to a bar that I've been to for 10 years from time to time. See started tending bar on Saturdays some time ago. I go with a woman I know and all hell breaks loose. Please note, Back in January of 2010 I started receiving private calls on my phone about the same time every Friday that lasted 8 months until a state investigator got the number and called her, yes the EX it was. Knew it all along, but could not prove it till then. Did not press any charges.
Back to sat night. I go in and she sees me and the panic sets in. She asks me what I would like and I order a mixed drink. Put my money down and didn't say another word. Several minutes later she starts insulting me in front of many people with no regard to what she is doing. I say nothing. I finish my drink, about to leave, but before I leave she tells me I must leave and leave now!! Still, she is saying horrible things in front of everyone about my character. Then I get up and the whole bar is against me. One guy makes a threat to me to leave, I had to go cause of what I would have done to him would have landed me in big trouble. I walk. Yes, I treated her well, she suffers from depression among other things in her life. She is a special ed teacher also, how the hell she does it, I have no idea.
Revenge is always best late, but what good what it do for me. I'm the better person. Sad part, she still cares for me and thinks of me or she would have never done this. Sick girl, through and through
 

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Close friends of mine who are in law enforcement told me that the bartender has the right to refuse anyone no matter what the reason, even if there is no reason at all. Looking for options that I have regarding. Sad thing is, I just wanted to say hello and have my drinks and leave. Never in a million years did I think that would happen and I've never heard of that happening anywhere, friends included.
 

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I would have been worried about having her mix me a drink , after the phone call thing especially.
 

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Close friends of mine who are in law enforcement told me that the bartender has the right to refuse anyone no matter what the reason, even if there is no reason at all. Looking for options that I have regarding. Sad thing is, I just wanted to say hello and have my drinks and leave. Never in a million years did I think that would happen and I've never heard of that happening anywhere, friends included.

I'm kinda confused here. In the first post you said you ordered your drink and didnt say anything else , but now you're saying that you wanted to say hello. Why didnt you say hello when you ordered your drink before she got crazy.
 

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I'm kinda confused here. In the first post you said you ordered your drink and didnt say anything else , but now you're saying that you wanted to say hello. Why didnt you say hello when you ordered your drink before she got crazy.

She was so out of sorts when she saw me and looked so angry, I thought saying hello, but I figured she would cool down for a second then I would say thank you and how have you been, or something close. Never got the chance. She tried to humiliate like I've never seen before
 

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Ive had a girl key my car from head to toe - Fig had a girl take a knife off the counter - open his closet and filet all of his suits - then she scratched her own face and said she's calling the cops and because he raped her - we talking sick like u can't fathom
 
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Ive had a girl key my car from head to toe - Fig had a girl take a knife off the counter - open his closet and filet all of his suits - then she scratched her own face and said she's calling the cops and because he raped her - we talking sick like u can't fathom


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She was so out of sorts when she saw me and looked so angry, I thought saying hello, but I figured she would cool down for a second then I would say thank you and how have you been, or something close. Never got the chance. She tried to humiliate like I've never seen before

Ok well heres my analysis (lol)

(a) She left you.

(b) She then fucks with you with private calls. (seems odd since she left you)

(c) you hired an investigator to bust her. (but you did nothing , seems odd unless you're really wealthy)

(d) you went to her job (WITH ANOTHER WOMAN)

(E) She went crazy. (which doesnt make any sense being she left you , and you didnt get her in any trouble , why the hell is she so mad ?)

... bottom line , both of you want each other back , so ya'll need to work it out.
 

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even a PG 13 pic would help us give you better advice on the situation....bikini should do the trick
 

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Dated this girl 4 years ago for about 1 year. She left me 2.5 years ago. Have not seen her personally in 2.5 years. I go to a bar that I've been to for 10 years from time to time. See started tending bar on Saturdays some time ago. I go with a woman I know and all hell breaks loose. Please note, Back in January of 2010 I started receiving private calls on my phone about the same time every Friday that lasted 8 months until a state investigator got the number and called her, yes the EX it was. Knew it all along, but could not prove it till then. Did not press any charges.
Back to sat night. I go in and she sees me and the panic sets in. She asks me what I would like and I order a mixed drink. Put my money down and didn't say another word. Several minutes later she starts insulting me in front of many people with no regard to what she is doing. I say nothing. I finish my drink, about to leave, but before I leave she tells me I must leave and leave now!! Still, she is saying horrible things in front of everyone about my character. Then I get up and the whole bar is against me. One guy makes a threat to me to leave, I had to go cause of what I would have done to him would have landed me in big trouble. I walk. Yes, I treated her well, she suffers from depression among other things in her life. She is a special ed teacher also, how the hell she does it, I have no idea.
Revenge is always best late, but what good what it do for me. I'm the better person. Sad part, she still cares for me and thinks of me or she would have never done this. Sick girl, through and through

well one thing you did right is come to this forum with this question... it may look like a gambling forum but these guys here know about relationships and the inner workings of the female mind.... best of luck sir
 

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