Husband of eight years can’t get into sex unless there’s porn on the telly.

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My husband needs porn on TV to get him in the mood for sex

Now he literally can’t get turned on in the bedroom unless there’s a porn film playing at the same time *********



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Dear Coleen,

My husband, who I’ve been with for eight years, can’t get into sex unless there’s porn on the telly.

At first it was just an *occasional thing to spice things up and get us in the mood, but now he literally can’t get turned on in the bedroom unless there’s a porn film playing at the same time.

Not only do I feel that I’m not enough for him any more, but to be honest, it’s just boring and not a turn-on for me at all. It’s just become routine.

Most of the time I just go along with it, otherwise we’d never have sex, but I’m not happy about it at all and never look forward to making love.

What can I do?

Coleen says..

You have to speak to him about it – there’s no other way. He’s just going to keep doing it until he knows you’re not happy.

Don’t bring it up just before you’re about to get intimate.

Instead, sit down with him away from the bedroom and tell him you’re getting bored of porn on all the time and you feel he’s unable to have sex without it.

Say you don’t want to cut it out completely, but that you don’t want it on the telly every single time you decide to have sex.

You could also take the initiative and show him other ways to spice up lovemaking.

Try some role play, dress up or create a romantic mood at home.*

There are lots of ways to turn each other on.

I hope that once he knows the porn is starting to turn you off, he’ll want to do something about it.

And you have to be honest that you feel the women in these films are the only ones that can turn him on any more.

He might actually welcome you mixing things up in the bedroom because he’s got into a rut himself – porn is an immediate visual turn-on for him, so he doesn’t have to make any effort.

However, to put your mind at rest, his love of porn has nothing to do with love.*

He needs to be reminded, though, that sex is about compromise and he has to work a bit harder to make love to you.
 

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He needs to be reminded, though, that sex is about compromise and he has to work a bit harder to make love to you.

She wanders all the way through that long answer only to come straight back in the final sentence with the entire reason the poor guy watches porn in the first place.
 

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