Anniversary Gift Question....

Defying · Aug 17, 2012

Two part Question:

Question 1:
In a couple weeks, My girl and I have been together for 5 years.... Do I get her a gift and take her out? ect....

Before you say, no shit, why I am unsure is because our 1year wedding anniversary is only a 1+month after that...

Just wondering... I most likely will still do something for her that day.. just don't see a reason to have two "anniversary" days, particularly a month a part....

Curious of the consensus of this.....

Question Number 2:
What was the best gift you ever got your wife.. (divorce doesn't count)

vinscully · Aug 17, 2012

Gift.

Buy her a Vacuum and a dildo.

Tell her if she doesn't like the vacuum, she can go fuck herself.

Should set you up for the next five years.

oldmanTED · Aug 17, 2012

If you think that she considers the 5 year anniversary of being together to be important to her, then a gift or dinner is in order.

However, that could diminish the importance of the wedding anniversary since they are so close together.

Since this is your 1 year wedding anniversary and it is so close to the date of the 5 year anniversary of being together, believe it might be time to focus primarily on the marriage anniversary, otherwise you will be facing this year after year. JMO.

shdw01 · Aug 17, 2012

Defying....imo don't do anything special...maybe a cheap dinner or something fun.

you are just setting yourself up for doom if you do something. I just looked and my wife has tomorrow marked down as our anniversary but I'm positive our anniversay is on 9/19 so i went to look and noticed the 9/19 date says "wedding anniversary".

I want to play cards with the boys tomorrow but the fucking calendar is making me approach the subject with great caution.

before i sound like a complete douchebag, i do think you should do something very special on the wedding anniversary, especially the first one.