me and the wife have been married for years. sex just ok nowadays and neither of us with much sex drive. not bold enough for a big club meeting. both of us nearing 50. how about putting together a sex ad with specific wants for our own sex role play, fantasy, or fetish? weed out spam/fakes then just meet as strangers at a hotel for pre determined sex acts? it may just be a voyeuristic scenario with another couple. i think we could let go of our inhibitions with a non judgmental anonymous sexy seductive meeting. we exchange no personal information to avoid any chance of a connection outside of this hotel meeting. so wha cha think? thanks in advance for any advice or input you have to share.