Is this the end???

MARRIAGE,,,,,,,,,,,,,
why are there any more marriages period, could we have it all WRONG, do the older beliefs have it right, the part where they have three and more wifes???


I grew up pretty much in a church surrounding, and it was baptist, methodist, pentecostal, types.

I seen an aunt and uncle, BOTH married to each other and then divorce, (and they were pastors). That put me off track for a bit, because growing up in a christian household, that was to me, the craziest thing, how can two professed christians and pastors at that get a divorce.
I seen my aunt counsel so many couples on marriage and relationships, so the divorce hit me in a real bad way.

I see now a sister and brother going through divorce, I see friends relationships broken up, and some nasty from name calling, furniture tossing, mental and physical abuse.

I been with women who had husbands and to this day I dont believe the men know.
I see so many pre nups, to me makes no sense if you get married.

I see women want divorce, came with nothing and wants to walk away with millions, and why is this allowed if the man already been taking care of the kids, and will see them a good bit of the time.

How does the woman end up with the house and car, and all this stuff, this is crap.

So, why are there still marriages anyway, why.

If you speak with older married couples, they will tell you short of its real hell, oh just hang in there, but you can make it.

I know its a fact that more than a billion is the world population, and it can work(marriage). but maybe we are picking the wrong persons, and maybe for the wrong reasons.

Case in point, you are dating and announce your marriage.
Its high fives because.

She is a Doctor
She has a drop dead body
She gave you really good head everytime you made love to her
Her family has money
She is a lawyer
She is a scientist
She has a really well known lucrative business or career

We seem to pick on looks and other reasons than a real hard core love, respect.

Most fat chicks I've met were super cool and had awesome personalities, even cute faces, but they got skipped because, ,,,,, well, too fat.

With women today, so free spirited, in dress and sex, how does a man stay focused and faithful.

BTW, most of the guys I know WHO ARE FAITHFUL, wants to hit someone else, but never got the chance, or afraid they will get caught.

bottom line, is marriage a waste of time

I don't know and gays are battling to get it?? Why

5teamparlay said:

I don't know and gays are battling to get it?? Why

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Masha GessenMs. Gessen’s comments on the subject seem to contradict the pro-gay-marriage party lines.

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  [*=left]“Gay marriage is a lie.”
  [*=left]“Fighting for gay marriage generally involves lying about what we’re going to do with marriage when we get there.”
  [*=left]“It’s a no-brainer that the institution of marriage should not exist.” (This statement is met with very loud applause.)

Its all a real big lie I guess, a real hard task at the least, putting two people together for a life time is no joke, but when we are in the relationship our blinders are on and for some reason dont realize the huge decision we are making, and its huge.

Just about every guy i know, whos in a relationship, would hit that hottie If they "only had a chance"
and sometimes we really, really love that someone, but they are missing something that we crave, admire, or love, and we see it in that other person.

Sometimes we see a couple and we are quick to say, what is she doing with "that" guy, she can do better than that,
you never know what rocks the womans world. They could be the weirdest things on Gods earth, to the warmest and loving.

You ever see the animals or things that they say, "awwww, so cute"; the guys who are smart go along with it and say 'yes dear, you are right"

but, anyways, Marriage, to one person for the REST of MY LIFE, I did it, and now really, really have to think I got hit in the head as a kid somehow.

There were somethings along the way, that I know I didnt like, and she is a very beautiful woman, with a great body and for some reason, I let the looks and body override the "other things". but a hot body and looks cannot take care of your business if you have one, or matters of importance to deal with, that pretty face cannot have a current events conversation with you that make any sense because she has no clue, only what time the hair dresser is open, how much it costs for the nails and hair, and what top goes with what bottom.

The only benefit I see is not being alone when you get older.