At what age is it acceptable to leave your son/daughter home alone for 3-4 days?

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Just assume they are responsible and don't cause any trouble whatsoever. You are actually not worried about parties or anything like that etc.

Most state laws say you can leave a child home alone at 12 (not necessarily overnight).

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3 or 4 days for me would be around 16, 17, 18 depending on the kid
 

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It depends on whether you want to see your house intact again...
 

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16 at the minimum but also agree it depends on the kid (might need to be older than that)
 

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I remember walking home alone in 4th grade and building a fire in the wood stove but times have changed a bit.

That's similar to me - 3rd grade I think I began walking home alone (or with peers). I'm 32 now, and grew up in a VERY dense urban area... That was around 1990 I guess (just in case that's relevant).
 
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Many factors to consider I believe. First off how responsible the kid is and then what the environment is. I would say a kid who lives in a rural area is more likely to be fine at a younger age than a kid in a urban setting.
 

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Many factors to consider I believe. First off how responsible the kid is and then what the environment is. I would say a kid who lives in a rural area is more likely to be fine at a younger age than a kid in a urban setting.

that's interesting - I'd say the opposite...
 

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All things being equal - if something goes wrong, in a densely populated (urban) area, there's always someone around... In a rural area, things might be more difficult if something were to go wrong (especially if the age of the kid prevents driving).
 
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that's interesting - I'd say the opposite...

Really? Why is that, because there would be neighbors there?

I just feel like there is so much more crime in a urban setting than in a rural and just from my experience, it seems as a kid growing up rural just has more responsibility thrust upon them at a younger age and hence seems to be more mature. I know that is pretty general, but just seems that way to me from what I have been exposed to.
 

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Really? Why is that, because there would be neighbors there?

I just feel like there is so much more crime in a urban setting than in a rural and just from my experience, it seems as a kid growing up rural just has more responsibility thrust upon them at a younger age and hence seems to be more mature. I know that is pretty general, but just seems that way to me from what I have been exposed to.

Grew up partially in Cambridge, MA - one of the wealthiest cities in the country - Harvard/MIT are there... Densely populated and urban don't necessarily mean poor, or dangerous. Just as an example, Somerville MA, which is next to Cambridge and Boston, is the 15th most densely populated city in the country... Very safe, very community-oreinted. NOW, if Wil was still here, he'd tell you about the old days of the Winter Hill Gang (Whitey Bulger) - but in my lifetime? Great city to grow up in.
 
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Again I was being general and speaking from my experience. I know that there are exceptions, but I would still argue that crime is much higher in urban areas than rural areas.

I am not a parent, but I do believe that I would be more likely to leave my kid in a rural area than urban.
 

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